Yes, you read the headline correctly.
It seems to encourage us to find randos at a bar to satisfy our urges, so we can be prim and proper in front of the men we actually want to be having sex with.
If you want to have a healthy and happy sex life, it shouldn't be by anyone else's standards but your own.But another survey, this one from Glamour, says that a much higher percentage 46 per cent of men and 33 per cent of women have had sex on the first date.That's like, a lot of beers.Become a supporter and enjoy The Good Men Project ad free.Well, that "not very into it" should be a big, flashing red light to you.But just because its flattering to be offered sex on the first date, and just because you can, doesnt mean that you should.Theres a lot of pressure on women to control the pace of the relationship, said 24-year-old Jess, and not give away the milk for free.Its just sort of assumed that men will want to have sex on the first date, and, therefore, that they should.And even those of us who do, from time to time, put out on a first date know that locker room one-upmanship and girl talk over brunch arent figments of our imagination.If things go badly, it's not the end of the world, right?Dont even think about whipping out your ABH Dip Brow and contour kit for someone who won't even mess it up at the end of the night.Here you are, on a mens website, reading an advice human trafficking and prostitution in the united states column for men, about why you shouldnt necessarily sleep with someone on the first date.What we do know is that he is really, really good at dating.People have such varying attitudes toward sex that when you ask one group you'll get a totally different answer than if you ask another.Thats what I call a real Prince Charming.Consent is informed and enthusiastic if your date doesn't seem like they're having the time of her life, stop right away and ask if everything's.Remember the three date rule?
Here's why the idea of waiting to have sex doesn't matter.
It sounds ridiculous, but sex isn't the same thing to everyone.